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Everybody Wants Authenticity Until Someone is Actually Authentic
THOUGHTS OUTSIDE THE OFFICE Everybody loves authenticity now. It is practically a marketing package. Be real. Be vulnerable. Show the behind-the-scenes. No filters. Tell your truth. But for the love of God, make sure your truth has good lighting, acceptable grammar, a satisfying ending, and does not make anybody uncomfortable. That is apparently the deal. We say we want people to be authentic, but what we actually seem to want is a very specific version of authenticity. We wa


ERASED
There is a feeling I don't think people talk about enough, probably because it sounds dramatic when you say it out loud. It is the feeling of being erased. Not left. Not rejected. Not even abandoned. Erased. Like you existed in someone's life for years, mattered deeply, occupied an enormous amount of space, and somehow the world has begun reorganizing itself as though you were never there at all. I know I am not unique. Families fall apart every day. Marriages end. Children p
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