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The Coffee Shop Series: Part 6 - The System is Terrifying, But We Are Not
These are conversational reflections on the practice of law—the kind of things we might talk about if we were sitting across from each other with a cup of coffee. No legal jargon, no courtroom posturing. Just the human side of what we do every day. The Coffee Shop Series If you are afraid of the legal system, I want to tell you something that might surprise you coming from an attorney: you are right to be. The legal system is terrifying. It is complex, intimidating, and entir


The Coffee Shop Series: Part 5 - I've Sat In That Seat Too
These are conversational reflections on the practice of law—the kind of things we might talk about if we were sitting across from each other with a cup of coffee. No legal jargon, no courtroom posturing. Just the human side of what we do every day. The Coffee Shop Series There is a profound vulnerability that comes with being a client. You have to walk into an office, sit across from a stranger, and hand over the most intimate details of your life. You have to lay out your fi


The Coffee Shop Series: Part 4 - A Way Out Of The Dark
The Coffee Shop Series These are conversational reflections on the practice of law—the kind of things we might talk about if we were sitting across from each other with a cup of coffee. No legal jargon, no courtroom posturing. Just the human side of what we do every day. If you strip away the statutes, the case law, and the procedural rules, the law is ultimately a mechanism for navigation. It is a map for when you are lost, and a flashlight for when you are in the dark. Whet


The Coffee Shop Series: Part 3 - The Peace Of Mind In Planning
These are conversational reflections on the practice of law—the kind of things we might talk about if we were sitting across from each other with a cup of coffee. No legal jargon, no courtroom posturing. Just the human side of what we do every day. The Coffee Shop Series Estate planning is one of those things that almost everyone puts off. It feels morbid to think about, and it requires making decisions that no one really wants to make. We avoid it because it forces us to con


The Coffee Shop Series: Part 2 - The Joy Of The Closing Table
The Coffee Shop Series These are conversational reflections on the practice of law—the kind of things we might talk about if we were sitting across from each other with a cup of coffee. No legal jargon, no courtroom posturing. Just the human side of what we do every day. A lot of the law deals with people on their hardest days. We see people when they are grieving, when they are divorcing, or when they are facing the terrifying machinery of the criminal justice system. But on


The Coffee Shop Series: Part 1 - The Human Side Of The Courtroom
The Coffee Shop Series These are conversational reflections on the practice of law—the kind of things we might talk about if we were sitting across from each other with a cup of coffee. No legal jargon, no courtroom posturing. Just the human side of what we do every day. Part 1: The Human Side of the Courtroom When people think of criminal defense, they usually picture what they see on television: loud arguments, dramatic objections, and a sterile, combative courtroom. They i


Party Cloudy With A Chance Of Fairweather.
The Fairweather Effect: Why Some People Are Only Meant For The Sun Shine If you are sitting on your couch tonight, staring at the wall, running through a mental list of everything you could have done differently—stop. Stop wondering what you could have said, what you shouldn't have said, what you could have done better, or how you could have been *more* to make them stay. Stop beating yourself up over the friend who distanced themselves, the family member who went quiet, or t


A Mother's Day Tribute. My Mama Is Always Still In The Corner Too.
A Mother's Day Tribute To My Mom - 2026 I just wrote about the conscious choice I am making to let my children see me navigate the hard seasons of life, rather than shielding them from every difficulty. I wrote about how my own parents protected me so fiercely growing up that I entered adulthood without a blueprint for how to survive when the world inevitably breaks. But with Mother's Day approaching tomorrow, I find myself reflecting on the other side of that coin. Because w


Momma Is Always-Still In Your Corner. What I Hope My Children Carry Into Adulthood.
I hope they know that they don't have to be perfect for each other in adulthood. They simply need to remain present for each other as siblings, as family, and as friends. When one of them is struggling, I want the others to show up—not with solutions or judgments, but with the quiet, unshakeable presence of someone who says, *"I am here, and you are not alone."*


A Letter To The Ones Who Carried Me
To the Ones Who Carried Me There is a profound vulnerability in having nothing left to give. For most of my life, I have been the one who fights. I have been the one who stands in the gap, the one who argues the case, the one who carries the weight for others. It is a role I know well, a role that feels safe. But when the ground beneath my own life gave way, when the darkness descended so heavily that I could no longer stand, I was forced into a position I had never known: I


There are No Neutral Rooms. They All Hold A Past.
There Are No Neutral Rooms I have spent enough time in enough rooms to know that neutrality is often more performance than fact. People like the word neutral because it sounds clean. It sounds civilized, disciplined, above emotion, above bias, above the ordinary mess of being human. We attach it to courtrooms, conference rooms, chambers, offices, interview rooms, living rooms, school offices, hospital waiting rooms, and boardrooms because we want to believe that if the sett


After the Verdict, There Is Still Housework and Homework.
After the Verdict, There is Still Housework and Homework There is a particular kind of silence that follows a verdict. It is not peace, exactly. It is not relief, at least not always. It is the silence that comes after a courtroom has held its breath and then released it. A jury has spoken. A judge has ruled. Lawyers gather their files, clients absorb impact, deputies open doors, families cry, rage, pray, or stare straight ahead. Everyone understands, even if only for a momen


Those Who Walk Into The Fire With You
The Profound Gift of Those Who Walk Into the Fire With You There is a shattering, suffocating darkness that descends when your world collapses. It is a quiet so heavy it feels like it might crush you. When the ground beneath you gives way, when the life you knew is fractured, the isolation is absolute. You find yourself sitting in the silence of an empty house, surrounded by the ghosts of a reality that no longer exists, wondering how you will ever breathe again. It is a prof


Why My Life Has Made Me Suspicious of Easy Answers
What criminal defense, marriage, motherhood, and life inside the same judicial district have taught me about complexity, conviction, and humility. The older I get, the less impressed I am by people who are certain about everything. Maybe that sounds cynical. Maybe it sounds tired. Maybe it sounds like what happens when you have spent too many years living in the tension between competing truths. But if my life has taught me anything, it is this: the people most committed to e


Louisiana Succession: What Families Should Expect After a Loved One Dies
After a loved one dies, families are often left with questions about property, assets, wills, heirs, and what happens next. This guide explains the Louisiana succession process in plain language, including when succession may be needed, what documents to gather, and how a spouse, children, or other family members may affect the estate.


The Skills Live Inside Of The Person, Not The Statute
There is a reason I named this series More Than a Statute. The law matters. The statute matters. The language matters. The rule matters. No lawyer can do this work well without respecting the written law. But being a lawyer is not simply about memorizing statutes. Quite honestly, no lawyer knows every statute, every exception, every update, every interpretation, and every possible application at all times. That is not possible, and anyone honest about the work knows that. Wha


Turning The Page: On Legacy, Loss and The Courage To Begin Again
There are places that shape you long before you ever realize what they are preparing you for. For me, this law firm has never been just an address or a brick building on Main Street; it has been the backdrop of my entire life. I grew up within these walls, watching my father practice law, serve our community, and carry the immense weight of being a trusted pillar in a small town for decades. I learned what dedication looked like by watching him answer hard questions and stand


Speaking Terms: Still Talking Counts.
Faith does not have to sound perfect to still be real. There are seasons when faith feels easy. Prayer comes naturally. Gratitude is close. Hope feels reachable. You can look around and see little reminders that God is near. You can feel steady in your spirit, clear in your mind, and confident that even if life is not perfect, God is still working. Then there are seasons when faith feels quieter. Not gone. Not abandoned. Not lost forever. Just quieter. Faith doe


The White Knight Persona.
When Public Goodness Hides Private Harm There are some people who are very easy to admire from a distance. They know how to appear helpful. They know how to sound steady. They know how to be charming in a room full of people, generous when someone is watching, calm when an audience is present, and deeply concerned when concern earns them admiration. They may become known as the rescuer, the helper, the protector, the person who shows up, the person who knows everyone, or the


Understand Louisiana Power of Attorney Forms
When life throws unexpected situations our way, having a trusted person to help manage our affairs can bring peace of mind. That’s where a power of attorney form steps in. If you live in Louisiana or have ties to the state, understanding how these forms work is essential. They are more than just legal documents - they are tools that empower you to protect your interests and those you care about. What Is a Power of Attorney Form? A power of attorney (POA) form is a legal docum
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